A typical plating-on-aluminum process will look similar to this:
Soak, 5-10 minutes or as needed
Rinse (multiple rinses)
Etch, 30sec to 3 minutes
Rinse, multiple
De-oxidize, 30sec to 3 minutes
Rinse, multiple
Zincate, 1-3 minutes
Rinse, multiple
Zincate strip, 30-90 sec
Rinse, multiple
Zincate, 2-4 minutes
Rinse, multiple
Strike bath (nickel sulfamate, Watts nickel, cyanide or alakline non-cyanide copper, etc)
Rinse, multiple
Bright copper, 30minutes to 3 hours (optional)
Rinse, multiple
At this point, many people remove the part from the process and buff/polish the part again, in order to achieve the brightest finish. After the copper cycle, the part can go through your normal nickel/chrome, just like it was brass.
Also, the double zincate step is optional. A single zincate works for many places. My experience has been in the aluminum wheel industry, and wheels are subject to very harsh conditions. Without the double zincate, the wheels would fail much quicker. Some places also do a double etch/de-ox cycle, to ensure a very clean part.
You can contact your local chemical vendor to get the correct chemicals.
-Dustin Gebhardt,
CEF
Plating Engineer
Danaher Tool Group
Gastonia, NC